A speaker series & podcast for sports parents, athletes & local business

Let's Talk
Youth Sports

Real answers for parents of athletes. Honest conversations with Athletic Director, Coach and Speaker Mike Allen and attorney Rory Pendergast.

In person · San Diego Live · on Zoom Anywhere · on the podcast
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Session day · A7D Creative Group, North Park

What is Let's Talk Youth Sports?

Real conversations. Practical information. Meaningful connections.

Let's Talk Youth Sports is a speaker series and podcast created for sports parents, athletes and the businesses that support the youth sports community.

Through pop-up events, conversations and expert-led discussions, it tackles the real questions parents navigate throughout their child's youth sports journey.

  • Choosing the right path
  • Preparing for high school sports
  • Keeping kids engaged
  • Managing pressure
  • Understanding what comes next
For parents

Honest answers to the questions that come up at every stage of your child's sports journey.

For athletes

Guidance on confidence, habits and the road from middle school to high school and beyond.

For businesses

A genuine way to connect with San Diego's youth sports families through experiences that help them.

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Parents need to be involved

Mike Allen and Rory Pendergast on competition, progress and the part parents play in a young athlete's journey. Filmed at A7D Creative Group.

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The series

Every sports parent has questions.

Almost nobody gets real answers.

  • 30 minutesA presentation built for your athlete's specific stage.
  • Live Q&AFacilitated by attorney Rory Pendergast. No question is off limits.
  • CommunitySports parents around the world figuring out the same things you are.
  • TakeawaysResources you can put to use no matter where you're watching from.
Mike Allen speaking with a microphone beside a screen reading 'Mistakes That Cost a Roster Spot'
Session 1 · Mistakes that cost a roster spot

Should your kid specialize or keep playing multiple sports? What are coaches actually looking for? How do you keep your athlete in love with the game when the pressure starts building? Why does every other parent in the group chat seem to have a plan you never got?

These are the conversations happening at kitchen tables everywhere. This series brings them into a room, or onto a screen, with someone who has spent a career on both sides of them.

Invest in the Athlete. Elevate the Family.

Season One

The sessions

Each session stands on its own. Pick the one that fits your athlete's stage.

Session One flyer: Middle School to High School
Session 1

Middle School to High School

The jump to high school sports is one of the biggest seasons in a student-athlete's life. What coaches evaluate before your athlete ever steps on the field, preparing academically and athletically at the same time, the mistakes that cost kids a roster spot, and building confidence before day one.

Session Two flyer: Keeping Your Athlete Engaged
Session 2

Keeping Your Athlete Engaged

Today's athletes face more distraction, pressure and burnout than any generation before. Build a healthy sports environment at home, balance competition with enjoyment, develop resilience through a bad season, and form habits that last past the final game.

Session Three flyer: Preparing for the High School Journey
Session 3

Preparing for the High School Journey

Session 1 gets your athlete through the door; this one covers the four years that follow. Training expectations, talking with coaches without becoming "that parent," academic eligibility, recruiting timelines, character development, and a personal plan for your athlete.

What's next
More dates are on the way as we are booking in more schools and communities. Follow along on Instagram for the next in-person, Zoom and podcast dates.

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The podcast

Take the conversation with you

The Let's Talk Youth Sports Podcast brings the series to any parent, in any city or country, on your own schedule. New episodes land weekly through October.

Weekly through October Hosted by Mike Allen Any sport · any country
  1. Episode 4 · October 7

    The Keys to What I Would Change About Youth Sports

    What would change if coaches, parents and administrators could rewrite the youth sports experience from scratch? Mike shares the shifts he'd make first, and what parents can start doing today without waiting for the system to catch up.

  2. Episode 5 · October 14

    What Coaches Really Look For

    Part one of the tryout run goes behind the curtain on what coaches are actually evaluating when they watch your athlete.

  3. Episode 6 · October 21

    Building Confidence Before Tryouts

    Part two: how to walk into tryouts prepared instead of anxious. Together, episodes 5 and 6 turn tryout uncertainty into a plan.

Why attend

Youth sports are about so much more than the scoreboard.

The wins, the losses, the pressure, the friendships, and the lessons that stick long after the final whistle. This is a space for the honest conversations that actually help parents raise a young athlete.

And it's like no other parent sports event. Make it a fun day out and join the youth sports conversation with us.

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Mike Allen, Sports Illustrated featured coach and speaker

Mike's story

Not supposed to be a basketball player

Before Mike Allen became a professional basketball player, coach, trainer, athletic director and mentor, he was a young athlete trying to find his way in a single-parent home. A three-sport high school athlete recruited by Division I programs for football and baseball, he turned that down to follow a coach who believed in him.

He went on to become a three-time All-American and three-time National Champion and MVP in basketball, the sport nobody had recruited him for. Today he is a Director of Athletics, coach and youth sports leader with a Master's degree in Sports Management and Leadership.

One coach changed what was possible for him. That is what he is here to talk about.

  • 3×All-American
  • 3×National Champion & MVP
  • 3×Coach of the Year
  • 500+Players coached at the next level
  • SISports Illustrated featured coach
  • HOFHigh School Hall of Fame

With the right guidance and support, belief can change a young athlete's life.

FAQ

Questions parents ask

Anything else on your mind? Bring it to the live Q&A, or reach out and we'll answer it directly.

Get in touch
What is Let's Talk Youth Sports?

Let's Talk Youth Sports is a speaker series and podcast created for sports parents, athletes and the businesses that support the youth sports community.

Through pop-up events, conversations and expert-led discussions, it tackles the real questions parents navigate throughout their child's youth sports journey, from choosing the right path and preparing for high school sports to keeping kids engaged, managing pressure and understanding what comes next. It's designed to create real conversations, practical information and meaningful connections around youth sports.

Who is Let's Talk Youth Sports for?

Any parent or guardian of a student-athlete from middle school through high school, in any sport, anywhere in the world. Whether your athlete is just starting out or deep into a competitive season, these conversations are built for you.

I own a business. How can I be part of it?

Let's Talk Youth Sports bridges the gap between small businesses and the youth sports families they want to reach. Instead of simply buying an ad or putting a logo on a banner, your business becomes part of an experience that is genuinely useful to sports families.

Host a session, sponsor a session or season, or partner with us on resources. Email letstalkyouthsports@gmail.com to start the conversation.

Do I need to attend in person?

No. Sessions are held in person for local families, and on Zoom and the podcast for everyone else. Join live from anywhere, or listen on your own schedule.

What happens in a session?

A 30-minute presentation built around a specific stage of the athlete journey (the middle school transition, tryouts, staying engaged, recruiting and more), followed by a live Q&A facilitated by attorney Rory Pendergast.

Do I need to bring my athlete?

Parents are the primary audience and athletes are welcome, but in-person sessions are really meant to give sports parents a fun day out.

Does one ticket cover more than one person?

Yes. One in-person ticket covers two people and includes one gameday swag bag.

Do I have to attend every session?

No. Each session stands on its own, so pick the ones that fit your athlete's stage or sport. There's no need to attend in order.

What topics does the series cover?

The middle-school-to-high-school jump, what coaches actually look for, staying engaged and avoiding burnout, recruiting and life after competition, sport-specific seasons (football, basketball, volleyball, baseball) and mental health.

My athlete's sport doesn't use terms like "CIF" or "varsity." Is this still relevant?

Yes. Motivation, recruiting, coach relationships, family pressure, injury and burnout apply across countries and systems. Sessions stay general so they translate to your local sports structure.

Where do I park for North Park sessions?

There's plenty of street parking in the neighborhood, and the North Park Parking Garage is on 29th Street and North Park Way. Get directions.

Get involved

Bring the conversation to your community

Let's Talk Youth Sports bridges the gap between small businesses and the youth sports families they want to reach.

Instead of simply buying an ad or putting a logo on a banner, your business becomes part of an experience that is genuinely useful to sports families.

We connect businesses with San Diego's youth sports community through conversations, experiences and resources that help parents navigate their child's sports journey.

Host a local session

Bring an in-person event to your school, club or organization. We'll work with you on scheduling, format and a topic focus for your community's athletes.

Sponsor a session or season

Support the series and get visibility with an engaged audience of sports parents and student-athletes.

Partner with us

Schools, clubs, businesses and organizations are welcome to collaborate on cross-promotion, guest speakers and resource sharing.

letstalkyouthsports@gmail.com or call 408-396-4114